Inspiring New Year Message from Helen

Ann — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 14:35:00 +0000

Hello Lovely Ann

Please pass on my love and gratitude to everyone who’s been supporting me over the last few months and let them know that my spirits are continually boosted by the messages they send.

Quick update is that I had my second chemo on 14th Dec. My intentions for the course are that “I receive the healing gift of chemotherapy with love and gratitude” & secondly that “It’s going to be a breeze”. Such a different attitude to 5 years ago – its been amazing how the work I’ve been doing (with the help of some exceptional therapists) has given me such strong self belief. The medics now tell me I have multiple tumours in both lungs as well as infected lymph nodes in my neck & around my trachea, and that the chemo course will be 6 months, with a scan to check progress half way through. This was a bit of a surprise as we’d previously been told only 3 months. I’ve told them this treatment is going to work so well I simply won’t be needing the second 3 months (besides I have a mountain to climb in June!). I’m not sure they believe me. That doesn’t matter really, because I believe me. I’ve been feeling pretty good so far, and see myself as a well, healthy person with an amazing future ahead of me.

I wish everyone a happy, healthy & fun-filled 2010.

With love, as always

Helen

Helen is blogging again – read about her adventures at http://helencrowe.net/

(Helen had bowel cancer 5 years ago and last year made a trip to Peru to raise funds for the Bowel Cancer charity. On her return she was diagnosed with a brain tumour which was successfully removed in October. If you’d like to send Helen a message (even if you don’t know her – its OK) and don’t have her details, please just ask me or leave a message here or on her own blog http://helencrowe.net/)

Happy New Year/ Auld Lang Syne

Ann — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 17:00:37 +0000

: Train Tracks in the Snow by Adam Hawkins

Why, when we gather to celebrate a New Year, do we sing the song that hardly anyone understands?

Auld Lang Syne – the song that everybody sings and nobody knows is often attributed to Robbie Burns but the song is actually much older and Robbie just added a few verses sometime in the 1790s.

The band leader Guy Lombardo is credited with making the song a New Year’s tradition after hearing it sung by Scottish immigrants to Canada. Lombardo played the song at midnight at a New Year’s eve party at the Roosevelt Hotel in New York City in 1929. After that, Lombardo’s version of the song was played and broadcast every New Year’s eve from the 1930s until 1976 at the Waldorf Astoria.

Looking back and looking forward

There are those who see the end of the year as a chance to look back on their achievements (or what they failed to achieve) and look forward to achieving more but the song asks us to reflect on our relationships with the people who have shared our journey in life while we think of what has passed and what is to come.

More than any other achievement it is the connections to other human beings that give life meaning, bring us a sense of belonging and make us emotionally healthy.

Auld Lang Syne urges us to call up memories of old friends and to lift a glass to toast them even if they are no longer with us or we haven’t seen them in a long time. When times are bad it is especially good to remember those who cared for us and supported us and remember that these same people celebrated with us in good times.

People are the most important things in our lives

The media continues its relentless fear-mongering, trying to make us believe that danger and evil lurks around every corner but there are also countless stories of the kindness of strangers and more especially, most of us are fortunate enough to know that there are people we can rely on and who can rely on us to be selfless and kind with no thought of reward.

We sing the song that we barely understand because we know instinctively that it is these relationships that we should celebrate at the end of a year and know that spending time on building and strengthening them will be the most important things we can do with our time in the years to come.

Appreciating that life has had good moments with good people is what sustains hope and makes us want to experience that feeling again in times to come.

May you have many such moments in 2010.

Here is my version of the old song:

For times long gone, old friend

For times long gone

We’ll drink a toast to kindness shared

In times long gone.

Let’s remember our old friends

Who helped when times were bad

Let’s remember the celebrations

That we shared when times were good.

You get yourself your favourite drink

And I will get mine too

And we’ll drink a toast to kindness shared

In times of long ago.

We used to run quite carefree

Picking flowers in the sun

But we’ve also trudged a weary way

And some good times have gone.

We used to paddle in the stream

And play till we were tired

But oceans flowed between us

And pushed it from our minds.

Now take my hand my trusted friend

And give me yours to shake

And join me in a good-will drink

To good times that we shared.

If you want to see the traditional words just go here:

http://www.worldburnsclub.com/poems/translations/auld_lang_syne.htm

Happy New Year!