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5 Easy Steps on How to make an Impact

 

burton3 227x300 5 Easy Steps on How to make an Impact

 

When Richard Burton, (RIP) was a young actor and was cast in the role of spear carrier in crowd scenes, his presence was so compelling that he stole the limelight from the actor playing the king.

How do you make this kind of impact in a crowd?

More importantly, in business, when you meet people for the first time, how do you get make sure  they take notice of you, trust you, want to know you and recommend you to their friends?

There are all sorts of techniques that help people change their self-beliefs in order to become more confident, there are voice coaches, body language specialists, NLP trainers, hypnotherapists and more.

 

However,

People don’t see your beliefs.

They don’t know what you’re thinking.

They’re not aware of your emotions.

The only thing they notice is your BEHAVIOUR

For thousands of years, actors have been making us believe in them by displaying the BEHAVIOUR of the kind of person they want to portray.

What happens in their personal lives doesn’t affect their performance.

They are often insecure as individuals but still deliver great, believable performances.

They often do it eight times a week for hundreds of weeks with great consistency.

They can portray characters that are totally unlike themselves with enormous conviction.

How does this help an ordinary person who wishes to create an impact?

Easy! We can copy what the best actors do.

Five Easy Steps on How to Make an Impact

  1. Define the role you want to play, e.g. charismatic leader, honest salesperson, trustworthy consultant, creative designer, useful team player
  2. Define the qualities a person in this role displays, e.g. charm, authority, consideration, tact, etc.
  3. Take each quality and work out what you need DO with your body to show those qualities, e.g to display consideration you may need to show that you are actively listening. What does a person who is actively listening DO? They make eye contact, lean forward and nod.
    Repeat this process for each quality until you know exactly how to DO what a person in your chosen role would DO.
  4. Practice. Practice until you become your behaviour, until its stops being an act and becomes authentically you. (Physical actions trigger emotions and create beliefs)
  5. Be the best version of yourself that you want to be – consistently.

Do – Be – Have

DO the things you need to do to BE the person you want to be and the things you want to HAVE will  follow.

Burton played 136 performances of Hamlet over 18 weeks. The production grossed $1,250,000. It was the highest-grossing and almost certainly the most profitable presentation of the play in the USA, if not the world.

He was born the 12th child in a family of 13 children in a mining village in Wales. His mother died when he was 2 years old.

“I find it ludicrous, learning some idiot’s lines in the small hours of the night so I can stay a millionaire”. Burton, 1972

This post is inspired by a training session with Mark Doyle of Fecund

Fecund provides measurable bespoke training for businesses as well as open Leadership and Personal Development Programmes.  For more information contact Mark Doyle at mark@fecund.co.uk

 

How DO you market your business in an age of mass empowerment?

A recent meeting on changes in buyer behaviour and marketing styles raised more questions than it answered so here are a few thoughts to help clarify things:

We used to say, find out where your potential buyers hang out and go talk to them, advertise to them, socialise with them, network with them, get in their face wherever they are.

In recent times consumers simply don’t accept that any more. They have become virtually immune to most forms of advertising and there are so many marketing messages vying for attention that it is difficult for any but the truly exceptional to be noticed.

And yet, buyers still buy.

 

The big difference in buyer behaviour is that they seek out suppliers, not the other way round. This means that, as businesses, we need to be found when our potential clients come looking for us.

So, the big question is: If you were searching for your product or service, where would you go to find it?

It might be Google, it might be a business directory, it might be a group of friends or a peer group.

We all know the power of Google and the importance of having a web site that shows up in Google searches but increasingly, people are turning to their social networks to ask for word-of-mouth recommendations – and the giant of the social networks is Facebook with over 500 million users.

In the background of this organic change in consumer behaviour is the change that is being driven by the big battle between Google and Microsoft.

In a nutshell, Microsoft wants a piece of Google’s market share of the search advertising revenue stream. It launched its own search engine (Bing) and bought out Yahoo search and then did a deal with Facebook that gives Bing huge amounts of information to draw on in searches.

Every time anyone clicks a Facebook ‘like’ button (now used on more than 2 million sites) the information creates Facebook’s Instant Personalisation which gives each Facebook user a unique experience.

This in turn feeds Bing which means that it can provide what is called a ‘social search’ that shows the searcher what their Facebook friends have liked in relation to that search. In effect, Facebook, in conjunction with Bing, is now challenging Google as the main driver of traffic to websites.

Just today (17th Feb 2011) Google has announced a subscription service allowing publishers to charge for content from which Google will earn a fee.)

Do you have a Facebook ‘like’ button anywhere on the web?

Is your website optimised for searches, including video content?

How else can a business be ‘found’

Google ad words and Facebook ads are both cheap and easy to use but Facebook has the edge on targeting ads.The only real answer is to experiment and see what works for your business.

YouTube and Twitter are also huge influencers on how people find and visit websites, drawn in because they were actively searching for something or were sent there by a friend.

LinkedIn is another major player in on-line business to business networking. Since the recent introduction of ‘open’ groups, discussions are searchable and it is easier than ever for the 80 million members to be found because of their area of expertise.

And then there are smartphones. Anyone with a smartphone can search the web on the go and find suppliers for their needs. If your website displays well on mobile phones and your competitors doesn’t that’s great. If it’s the other way round you’ve lost the game.

If your product label or special offer flyer has a QRCode (a Quick Response bar code) a smartphone will read it and bring people to you.

So, you make sure your website is optimised for search engines like Google and Bing (SEO) and that it displays well on smartphones. You swap your email newsletter for a blog, set up a Facebook page, a Twitter account and a LinkedIn profile, start your own YouTube channel, make some videos, optimise those too and then resume blasting out your sales messages, right?

Wrong!

If your buyer behaviour has changed then your marketing style must also change.

The reason buyers changed their behaviour is that THEY DO NOT WANT SALES MESSAGES. If they find you on Facebook and Twitter and you are just broadcasting the same old stuff in the same old way they’ll ignore it in the same way they do direct mail or unsolicited email.

So here’s the second big question: If a buyer can find your competitors just as easily as you, why should they buy from you?

Go on, answer that question. If you don’t know why, how will a buyer know?

How well do you know your customers? Do you know what they are trying to accomplish in THEIR business or THEIR lives? Does what you do provide them with what they need to do this? Where do you fit in with what THEY want?

It used to take masses of market research to discover this but with the technology we all have at our fingertips it is much easier to find out what your potential customers are thinking, what they need, what they like and what it takes for them to trust you. It involves having conversations – real, two way communication, not one-way sales broadcasts.

When they find you, you need to engage them and encourage them to engage with you. If this sounds time consuming and laborious think about it this way. A conversation with one person on Twitter or Facebook or via a comment on a blog or a forum will be ‘overheard’ by hundreds of other people. All of these media are platforms for you to engage with more people, more closely targeted, more quickly than ever before and for them to pass those messages on to others in their network at the click of a mouse.

Its not easy but its not that hard either. The technology is made for non-techy people to use so don’t get hung up on that. A few simple pointers and some common sense will help you to avoid wasting time.

The main thing we all need to do is change from thinking of mass, largely untargeted and one-way sales messages to discovering individual needs by engagement and two way conversations.

Considering how few people like to ‘sell’ and how many love to help people to discover what they need, it’s really not that hard once you get your head around it.

So, how DO you market your business in an age of mass empowerment?

  1. Be found
  2. When you’re found, be engaging
  3. When you engage, listen
  4. When you listen, offer help
  5. When you help, develop trust
  6. When you’re trusted you’ll be bought.

Should you pay for this or DIY?

You CAN do all of this yourself but you need work out how much it costs you. If you are running a business your time is not ‘free’ it is valuable. Spending earning time on these activities needs to be balanced with everything else you could be doing to grow your business.

Marketing agencies, web designers, SEO experts, social media experts (treat these with great caution – what did they do before they were SoMe experts?), copywriters and graphic designers all need to know how these new tools and strategies fit together. Most of them are learning as they go along because everything is so new and changes happen fast and often without warning. If they admit that and work WITH you, they’re worth talking to. 

The key is to see if they are using these techniques in their own businesses and how successful they are at making it work. There is no one person that can do all this for you. If you are a small business, don’t try to imitate a large company – it just won’t work.

There is no one-size fits all so explore what is the best solution for your business and don’t be shoehorned into a pre-determined process.


This is a huge subject and I’d love to hear your thoughts and questions so please share them below. ……….

Why Tweeting Quotes is a Waste of Time

Quotations and aphorisms are generally just verbal Christmas presents; enticingly done up in pretty paper and ribbons, but once you get them open they generally turn out to be just socks. Tom Holt (2007)

I frequently have a rant about the uselessness of quotes on Twitter. Not ‘quotes ON Twitter’ as in “He who tweeteth quotes shall be deemed as wise as the person he tweeteth” because that’s just silly and most of the people who are quoted were dead many hundreds of years before Twitter came into being.

There is nothing so ridiculous but some philosopher has said it. Cicero (106-43 BC)

No, I mean the endless, indiscriminate parade of stuff that is so saccharin it makes you want to throw up, has no interest or meaning for most of the people who receive it and in many cases is just bullshit.

Some recent examples are “Thoughts become things so choose the good ones.” This is an example of such sloppy thinking that I’d like to slap the originator but instead devoted a separate post to it.

She had a pretty gift for quotation, which is a serviceable substitute for wit…W. Somerset Maugham (1926)

The next one was something along the lines of “Before starting a journey don’t ask advice of someone who has never left home”. Now, I get the idea of this but, you know, there are circumstances when the person who has never left home might be exactly the right person to ask. They may have studied the place you’re going to or they may have the best maps. Hell, they might have invented Google Earth! Does anyone really believe that the only person to consult on anything is someone who has had personal experience of it? (Pause until the screams of many coaches has died down). Frankly, I’d rather consult a doctor who is healthy than one who has the same illness as me.

At all events, the next best thing to being witty one’s self, is to be able to quote another’s wit. Christopher N. Bovee (1857)

Another was “The person who wants to demolish a mountain starts by moving a few stones.” You know what? If I wanted to demolish a mountain I’d hire a bulldozer. Even taking it literally, if I had a job that seemed insurmountable, I’d get help. Wrapping things up in allusions and metaphore doesn’t necessarily make them more powerful.

In a pinch, any orphan quote can be called a Chinese proverb. Ralph Keyes, “Nice Guys Finish Seventh”:

Then there was a quote from Einstein. Now Einstein was a great scientist but deeply flawed in other respects. He was widely regarded as oversexed, immature and lousy at sustaining meaningful relationships so forgive me if I don’t follow his advice unless it’s directly related to science.

Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. Oscar Wilde (1905)

Quotations can be used to great effect when used in articles or essays. They serve as really good hooks or attention-grabbers and can give emphasis to a particular point but on their own, with no reference point to their significance, they are just brain fluff.

Given all this, why do people feel compelled to share a quote, apropos of nothing, with their whole list of contacts?

Famous dead people make excellent commentators on current events. Ralph Keyes, “Nice Guys Finish Seventh”

I guess its because something in that quote spoke to them, which means that they probably need to take action on something that’s happening in their lives. It most likely doesn’t have any significance to anyone else unless they are sharing the same issues.

The great writers of aphorisms read as if they had all known each other very well. Elias Canetti (1942–1972)

What would be interesting would be to hear what folk did as a result of reading a quote but sadly, I expect the answer would be not a lot except nod wisely and pass it on.

Meanwhile nothing changes. Its thinking for ourselves AND TAKING ACTION that changes things not taking someone else’s thinking and believing it can change anything.

Immortality. I notice that as soon as writers broach this question they begin to quote. I hate quotation. Tell me what you know. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Journals (May 1849)

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