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		<title>What is Mentoring?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 13:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Business mentoring can be a powerful experience for both mentor and mentee, but needs real commitment from both parties if it is going to succeed. This short guide from Sainsbury Management Fellows should help you decide whether mentoring is right for you.&#8221;]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Business mentoring can be a powerful experience for both mentor and mentee, but needs real commitment from both parties if it is going to succeed. This short guide from <a target="_blank" href="http://www.smf.org.uk/"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Sainsbury Management Fellows</span> </a>should help you decide whether mentoring is right for you.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>You can&#8217;t grow a business by yourself</title>
		<link>http://annhawkins.com/2013/01/you-cant-grow-a-business-by-yourself/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2013 18:42:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you do everything in your business yourself &#8211; or just the important things? Today I got into a bit of an argument on Twitter (nothing new there). It started with someone moaning about having to get up at ridiculous hours to attend to their business and me responding by saying that as they own [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><a href="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/leadenhall_st_b.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2581" style="border: 5px solid white; margin: 5px;" alt="leadenhall st b You cant grow a business by yourself " src="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/leadenhall_st_b.jpg" width="220" height="158" title="You cant grow a business by yourself " /></a>Do you do everything in your business yourself &#8211; or just the important things?</h1>
<p>Today I got into a bit of an argument on Twitter (nothing new there).</p>
<p>It started with someone moaning about having to get up at ridiculous hours to attend to their business and me responding by saying that as they own the business they should employ someone to do this particular task.</p>
<p>It’s an important part of the business and led to a discussion about whether critical tasks should be delegated or not.</p>
<p>My view is that yes, they should. (I actually shouted, *YES* they should.)</p>
<p>Business owners are there to manage the business, to make decisions, to keep track of cashflow and consistently review how the business is working and make improvements where they’re needed. As soon as the business is big enough, *everything* else should be delegated.</p>
<p>If the business owner is the only one who can be trusted with a critical task it means that the business is too vulnerable and at risk and is probably unsalable.</p>
<p>Then we got into “what if the person the critical task is delegated to doesn’t do it properly?” Well, it is the owner’s job to check that it is being done properly and make sure people are properly trained or replaced. Delegation doesn’t mean abdication.</p>
<p>If your business is so small that you’re still doing everything yourself and you’re happy with that that’s fine but if you want it to grow you need to have a plan and that plan will very likely involve you stepping away from all of the stuff you do now and managing other people who will do it instead &#8211; and that&#8217;s a whole other skill set.</p>
<p>Basically, if your business is big enough to employ people and it still can’t run without you, there’s something wrong.</p>
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		<title>Social networking v social media marketing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2012 22:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Social networks and marketing  If you run a small business you may have accounts on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn or other social networks. If you haven’t, you&#8217;ve probably been told many times that you should have. Why? I bet you&#8217;ve been told that, with millions of people in these networks, it’s a good place to market your business. And it [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><strong> <a href="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/dont-sell-1.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2555" style="border: 5px solid white; margin: 5px;" title="don't sell" src="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/dont-sell-1.jpg" alt="dont sell 1 Social networking v social media marketing " width="175" height="125" /></a></strong><strong>Social networks and marketing </strong></h1>
<p>If you run a small business you may have accounts on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn or other social networks. If you haven’t, you&#8217;ve probably been told many times that you should have.</p>
<p>Why? I bet you&#8217;ve been told that, with millions of people in these networks, it’s a good place to market your business. And it is, but maybe not in the way you&#8217;ve been led to expect.</p>
<p>When these social networks started people joined to network &#8211; socially. Then people who spotted the opportunity joined just to market their businesses &#8211; but nobody &#8212; <strong><em>*NOBODY*</em></strong>&#8211; has ever joined a social network to be sold to.</p>
<blockquote><p>What this means is that there are thousands of small businesses using social networks in a way that actually turns people off and works against them</p></blockquote>
<p>Despite all the psychological research that shows the importance of a profile picture having a face that people can relate to, smiling and with good eye contact, there are thousands of small business owners on Twitter lurking anonymously behind their logo and business name and spouting out the equivalent of an elevator pitch.</p>
<p>Why would anyone handicap themselves like this when<strong><em> nobody wants to be sold to?</em></strong></p>
<p>There are people auto-posting their own blog links in multiple LinkedIn Groups under the disguise of discussions and displaying desperation by ‘liking’ their own submissions with the result that members are flagging them as inappropriate because<strong><em> nobody wants to be sold to. </em></strong></p>
<p>Facebook is littered with unloved and unseen business pages as, even if they’ve liked them out of politeness, no-one sees the posts because<strong><em> nobody wants to be sold to. </em></strong></p>
<p>The problem is that everyone is using the term ‘social media marketing’ without fully understanding what it means. SMM is an art and a science used to great effect by big brands and specialist agencies that use complex tools and algorithms to decide where to place adverts and where to create engagement with their fans on social networks. It is not simply broadcasting a marketing message at people who don;t want to hear it.</p>
<h2>This begs the question, if you run a small business; can you use social networks for marketing?</h2>
<p>The answer is an emphatic ‘yes’, but you need to adopt different strategies.  Instead of social media marketing, concentrate on becoming an expert social networker. I’m guessing that as a small business owner you are already pretty good at face-to-face networking so you already know the basics.</p>
<p><a href="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/bag-on-head-.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2556" style="border: 5px solid white; margin: 5px;" title="bag on head" src="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/bag-on-head--150x150.jpg" alt="bag on head  150x150 Social networking v social media marketing " width="150" height="150" /></a>You wouldn&#8217;t turn up at a networking meeting with a bag on your head with a business card stuck to it, so don’t do that in social networks.</p>
<p>You wouldn&#8217;t burst into a room and blurt out a sales pitch – or worse, send a recording of your sales pitch to be broadcast at scheduled intervals at several meetings at once, so don’t do that in social networks.</p>
<p>You wouldn&#8217;t ignore people in the room who spoke to you until you found time to reply to them a couple of days later, so don’t do that in social networks. Show up regularly.</p>
<h2>How does social networking work for small businesses?</h2>
<p>Imagine visiting a prospect in their office. You’d see what books they read, pictures of their family, certificates they have on their wall. Imagine taking them out for lunch. You’d get to know their likes and dislikes and maybe their hopes, dreams, disappointments and achievements. Connecting with them in social networks can be just as revealing if you take time to get to know people and make *them* the most important part of the conversation. As Dale Carnegie said in his book How to Win Friends and Influence People; “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”</p>
<p>But first you have to meet the <em><strong>PERSON</strong></em>.</p>
<p>The second important aspect is to have good content. Whether its a Twitter stream, a Facebook page or a blog, the content is what people will look at, sign up to and come back for. All of these things should draw people in, make them want to be part of the conversation or discussion and want to comment.</p>
<p>There are lots of great ways to make social networking part of your business growth strategy. If you want to have a chat about it, call or skype me on 07711 705038 or leave a comment below.</p>
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<h3><em>Ann Hawkins is a business mentor, founder of The Inspired Group and presenter of The Business Hub Radio Show. If you’d like to talk to Ann about how to take your business from OK to Excellent call her on 07711 705038  </em></h3>
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		<title>Why blogs are great for small businesses</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 17:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Blogs are great for small businesses A guest post from Helen Reinson of IT Hummingbird  Anyone that’s ever run a small business knows the importance of finding effective ways to market their business that won’t take too much time and can be done on a minimal, or even non-existent budget. If this is relevant to [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Blogs are great for small businesses</h1>
<p><strong><em>A guest post from Helen Reinson of <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.it-hummingbird.co.uk">IT Hummingbird </a></span></em></strong></p>
<p>Anyone that’s ever run a small business knows the importance of finding effective ways to market their business that won’t take too much time and can be done on a minimal, or even non-existent budget.</p>
<p>If this is relevant to you, then say hello to the blog; he could just be your biggest ally and your new best friend.</p>
<h2>Blogging benefits</h2>
<p>There are many benefits to writing a blog and posting it on your website and I’m sure you’ve heard of most of them.  These include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Driving traffic to your website</li>
<li>Producing social media fodder</li>
<li>Promoting your clients and associates</li>
<li>Contributing to that ever important SEO</li>
<li>Showing off your knowledge and expertise</li>
<li>Opportunities to capture the attention of your target market</li>
<li>Building a history of work you have done over a period of time</li>
<li>Keeping your website fresh with new content on a regular basis</li>
<li>Engaging with clients and prospects by encouraging them to leave their comments</li>
</ul>
<p>But overall, they are a very effective means of spreading information about you and your business across a far wider target audience.</p>
<p>Given all these advantages it’s surprising to find that a large number of small business owners are reticent to start their own blog.   The common concerns seem to be:</p>
<ul>
<li>Not knowing what to blog about</li>
<li>Finding the time</li>
<li>Keeping momentum</li>
</ul>
<h2>Knowing what to blog about</h2>
<p>I’ve heard business owners tell me they wouldn’t know what to blog about and then spend the next hour telling me, with great passion, all about their business, the fantastic product / service they offer and the benefit they provide.  For me blogging is a small step from talking about your businesses and what you can do for your clients, to putting this down in short, interesting and informative blog posts.</p>
<p>The trick is to think about what your target audience would be interested to read about or find invaluable to learn.</p>
<p>Blog about a recent achievement or case study, a challenge you’ve overcome, useful statistics or reference points of value to your target market.   Blog about events you host or attend; past, present and future.</p>
<p>Blog about the knowledge you have which could make a real difference to your existing and future clients.</p>
<h2>Finding the Time</h2>
<p>The first few times you write your blog you may well find that it does take some time.  However you will notice over time your blogging will get easier and quicker too.</p>
<p>To get you started here are my top 3 time saving tips:</p>
<ol>
<li>You don’t need to write War and Peace so don’t be afraid to keep your blog posts short, sweet and to the point</li>
<li>Have a clear theme in your head before letting your fingers hit the keyboard</li>
<li>Set a limit on how much time you can spend you want to spend on the blog and make sure you stick to it</li>
</ol>
<p>Remember your blog has the potential to reach and influence a wide and far-reaching audience.  What else could you do in that same timeframe, from the comfort of the your own home/office, that could have the same impact and provide as many benefits?<strong> </strong></p>
<h2>Keeping momentum</h2>
<p>It is true that once you decide to commit to a blog and host on your website you do need to make a commitment to keep it coming and keep it fresh.  But this need not be as daunting as it may sound, providing you apply some crafty tactics:</p>
<ul>
<li>Write ideas for blog content on a notepad as they come into your head so you have a list of future post topics to fall back on</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Write when the creativity strikes, this not only will make it easier and quicker to write the blog but also allows you to store up posts to release over a period of weeks</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Check your calendar and blog about those past, present and future events</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Find another small business blogger whose service / product complements your own and suggest exchanging guest blog posts</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>We all hold a vast amount of knowledge in our specialised field; don’t give it all away at once but release as a series of posts and keep your audience coming back for more</li>
</ul>
<p>I hope I’ve convinced you to at least give blogging a go.  Once you have your blog written and posted on your website you need to make sure you promote it for maximum coverage.  However, that is a whole different topic of its own to be covered in a separate blog <img src='http://annhawkins.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt="icon smile Why blogs are great for small businesses" class='wp-smiley' title="Why blogs are great for small businesses" /> </p>
<p><em><strong>If you&#8217;ve got a great story to share about how blogging has helped your business, tell us in the comments below!</strong></em></p>
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<p>You can connect with Helen on <a target="_blank" href="http://twitter.com/helenreinson">Twitter </a> and read her own <a target="_blank" href="http://www.it-hummingbird.co.uk/blog/">blog posts </a>on her website.</p>
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		<title>The Dragons Den&#8217;s Newest Stars</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 13:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was delighted to interview the BBC Dragons Den TV series newest stars today. James and Richard Gold and Lewis Blitz have grown their business Skinnydip to £500,000 turnover in just eighteen months with a startup investment of just £45k James and Richard, 25 and 23 respectively and Lewis, also 25, have been friends since [...]]]></description>
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<h1>I was delighted to interview the BBC Dragons Den TV series newest stars today.</h1>
<p>James and Richard Gold and Lewis Blitz have grown their business Skinnydip to £500,000 turnover in just eighteen months with a startup investment of just £45k</p>
<p>James and Richard, 25 and 23 respectively and Lewis, also 25, have been friends since they were children and decided when they were 15 that they’d like to work together.</p>
<p>After university, with no loans to pay back (!) they got jobs and saved as much as possible while developing their business ideas. Two years ago, with some help from friends and family, they invested £45,000 and went to work to build <a target="_blank" href="http://www.lets-skinnydip.com/">Skinnydip</a>  a brand of fresh and fun tech accessories including cases, headphones and speakers.</p>
<h2>First order from Debenhams</h2>
<p>With no proptypes and just some design ideas they hit the phones and got an interview with Debenhams buyer and left with an order! From there, their products are now stocked in all the major retailers in the UK.</p>
<p>The guys were so impressive that three of the dragons were fighting to invest £120,000 in them. Deborah Meaden wanted just 20% of the company, Theo Paphitis wanted 25% and Peter Jones 30%. Ignoring the retail specialist and the marketing specialist, the guys opted for the amiable Peter Jones. They described the decision as ‘not just about the money’ and they liked that Jones had offered to drop his shareholding down to 25% as soon as they paid back his investment.</p>
<h2>The Show</h2>
<p>The five minute clip we saw on the TV show was part of a two hour gruelling interview when the business and the guys who run it were taken apart and examined in great detail. They described the moment when they were given space to consult with each other before accepting any of the offers as a &#8216;blessed relief&#8217;.  There was a five month gap between the show being filmed and going out on air and the hardest part in all of it was that James, Richard and Lewis couldn&#8217;t tell anyone except their very closest family members, and they were sworn to secrecy. The strategy obviously worked as I googled their names the day before the show aired and got zero results &#8230;. impressive.</p>
<p>What was also impressive is the work and preparation that goes on in the gap between winning the investment and going public. The winners had time to get their website ready to accept a lot of traffic and they themselves had obviously been well groomed in how to handle the PR machine. During the interview they gave me answers they wanted listeners to hear whether or not I&#8217;d asked the question but, fair play, that&#8217;s what the game is about and they did it very well. Their natural charm and good manners were still firmly in place and I&#8217;m sure their parents must be glowing with pride.</p>
<h2>Why are they different?</h2>
<p>I asked James and Richard what made them different from the millions of other people who have good ideas and never get them off the ground and they replied, with what I guess will become a trademark charm, that were lucky to be surrounded by talented people who believed in them and wanted to be involved in their company.</p>
<p>That wasn&#8217;t quite what I meant but we only had ten minutes so I hope to get a more detailed answer to that next time as I&#8217;m sure they&#8217;ll be back for more interviews.</p>
<p>Looks like a bright future for the Skinnydip brand and the enterprising young men who started it!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Sep 2012 11:36:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being well connected has always had its advantages. The old school tie, family money, the right circles, the right clubs and contacts have always been great for those on the inside, but now, being connected is taking on a new meaning. Just like the old style connections, these new ones can get you business, influence, [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Being well connected has always had its advantages.</h1>
<p>The old school tie, family money, the right circles, the right clubs and contacts have always been great for those on the inside, but now, being connected is taking on a new meaning.</p>
<p>Just like the old style connections, these new ones can get you business, influence, jobs, upgrades and loans.</p>
<p>The bracelet on the left is a Nike Fuelband. It links to your iphone and measures your activity throughout the day, recording calories burnt, miles covered, heartrate etc., etc.</p>
<h2>You might think this is just a sports accessory but it isn&#8217;t.</h2>
<p>Your results are also recorded on you social networking sites and you can set up competitions with work colleagues &#8230;&#8230; are any alarm bells ringing yet?</p>
<h2>How long before your &#8216;activity score&#8217; affects more than your health?</h2>
<p>We&#8217;ve already heard of  airlines and hotels upgrading people based on their Klout score (this is not an endorsement of Klout &#8211; it is a deeply flawed algorithm &#8211; try Kred or PeerIndex instead).</p>
<p>Some employers are already asking for a minimum ‘social influence’ score. How long before they ask for your activity score too?</p>
<p>What if health insurance companies offered lower premiums to those with a good Nike Fuel score? How long is it going to be before this becomes a reality?</p>
<p>Banks are looking at people&#8217;s &#8216;social connectedness&#8217; and social network activity to help them decide who they&#8217;d like as customers. This is not much different to the old days when someone &#8216;vouched&#8217; for you as a good risk.</p>
<p>You are already being judged on your connections or lack of them, whether you like it or not.</p>
<h2>How do your customers see you?</h2>
<p>Don&#8217;t tell me your customers aren&#8217;t on-line so you don&#8217;t need to be. Generation X and Generation Y is over. Being connected on line is not about age any more. If your customer has a grouse about your service on Facebook or Twitter and you&#8217;re not there to pick it up and turn it to your advantage by showing the world what great customer relationships you have, you&#8217;re not going to survive for long.</p>
<p>Customers and clients are behaving differently. They ask their on-line friends for recommendations and they trust them over any fancy advertising. They expect to be able to connect with you on-line without any barriers and they&#8217;ll check you out before they buy anything from you. If you&#8217;re not there forget it.</p>
<h2>Getting connected</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s easier than ever before to get connected.You don&#8217;t need to have gone to a good school, have family money, be a celebrity or a millionaire, you just need to know how to talk to real people. This is not about social &#8216;media&#8217; or social &#8216;marketing&#8217; its about treating people as individuals, being more interested than interesting, asking questions instead of pitching, building relationships and building trust.</p>
<h2>The rewards</h2>
<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s the ROI?&#8221; is the wrong question. No one knew that Amazon was going to be the death of giant retail book stores when it launched. Right up until the tables turned the figures showed that Amazon was making less profit than the high street stores. When that changed, it was too late for them to catch up. If they&#8217;d gone on line at the same time as Amazon who knows what the results might have been.</p>
<p>If you are watching and waiting to see what happens instead of being one of the people that makes things happen, pretty soon you&#8217;ll be asking &#8220;What the hell happened?&#8221;</p>
<p><em>If you&#8217;d like help getting connected to your customers and clients just <a target="_blank" href="mailto:ann@theinspiredgroup.com">email</a> me or call me on 07711 705038 </em></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2012 08:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you noticed how &#8220;Made in Britain&#8221; is appearing more often on products? A recent discussion with some good folk  centred on why this happening. Reasons varied from the pragmatic: there are a lot of tourists arriving for the Olympics so people hope to make the most of it, to the philosophical: in hard times, [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><a href="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/picunionjack_1_.gif"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2485" title="Union Jack " src="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/picunionjack_1_.gif" alt="picunionjack 1  Can you use Made in Britain?" width="150" height="90" /></a>Have you noticed how &#8220;Made in Britain&#8221; is appearing more often on products?</h1>
<p>A recent discussion with some good folk  centred on why this happening. Reasons varied from the pragmatic: there are a lot of tourists arriving for the Olympics so people hope to make the most of it, to the philosophical: in hard times, it may be that manufacturers hope that people will be more inclined to help keep profits in our own economy.</p>
<p>With so much business being done on the internet, an increasingly sought after skill is writing for the web  so I pricked up my ears when I heard Chris Thomas of <a target="_blank" href="http://miltoncontact.co.uk/">Milton Contact</a> Ltd and Carsten Garrett of<a target="_blank" href="http://www.gowersoc.co.uk/"> Gower Associates </a> mention that English is still the most used language in business and that style and tone is every bit as important as content.</p>
<h2>Writing good English is a saleable skill</h2>
<p>Brits are a minority amongst English speakers (the majority being Chinese) but speaking and writing English well is a saleable skill in most places in the world. An English accent is still highly prized too!</p>
<p>According to Chris and Carsten, the British, as opposed to American, style of communication is also prized because it is predictable, gentle and polite and makes people feel valued and safe.</p>
<p>We’re not talking about an archaic style of business writing but simply of good manners and most importantly, understanding how we make people feel with our style of communication.</p>
<h2>Made in Britain doesn&#8217;t just apply to manufactured goods</h2>
<p>I have been delighted and surprised at how many people from all around the world have asked to join The Inspired Group and have subscribed to our series “The A-Z of Business Success”  each episode with an English speaking recorded interview.</p>
<p>Maybe the very thing that we think of as slightly anachronistic in a fast moving, Americanised world is the thing that we can take most advantage of and that “Made in Britain” can be applied to more than just commodities.</p>
<p>Does your business attract clients from outside the UK? Could it? Is this something you’d value? Tell us what you think.</p>
<p><em>Ann Hawkins</em>  <em>and the amazing TIG </em><em>can help you grow your business and achieve the breakthrough results your hard work deserves. To find out more, simply click <a target="_blank" href="http://theinspiredgroup.com/">here</a></em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2012 10:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you daunted by always having to create new content? I often get asked about different ways of promoting a business or getting new business through generating content for blog posts, radio interviews, e books, printed books, free tips, webinars, podcasts, etc., etc. All of these work on their own but they work even better [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Are you daunted by always having to create new content?</h1>
<p>I often get asked about different ways of promoting a business or getting new business through generating content for blog posts, radio interviews, e books, printed books, free tips, webinars, podcasts, etc., etc.</p>
<p>All of these work on their own but they work even better if they’re linked up and even better than that if the content is generated by your fans, your network or your tribe.</p>
<div class="simplePullQuote"><p>If you need content and, instead of giving just your take on things, you ask other people to contribute <em>and give them credit</em>, you immediately get fans for your work.</p>
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<h2>The next best thing is to use that content in lots of different ways.</h2>
<p>Put the radio recording, podcast or interview on your website or blog, add it to an ebook, turn it into free tips, make it into a training programme. Not everyone accesses things in the same way so make your content as accessible as possible in as many different ways as possible with lots of added but different value.</p>
<blockquote><p>It has been said that best selling thinker and author Edward de Bono, the father or lateral thinking, mind mapping and creativity, only ever wrote one book but published it in 77 ways.</p></blockquote>
<h2>Some quick tips for engaging people in your work:</h2>
<ul>
<li>If you have guest writers, interviewers, bloggers they help you to promote what you do.</li>
<li>If you get people involved in helping to create the content, they&#8217;ll rave about it.</li>
<li>If you link everything you do to your blog or website, that&#8217;s good sense.</li>
<li>If you use lots of social media channels, draw all the activity into one, easy to find, central hub.</li>
<li>If you turn a series of interviews, blogs or articles into something that people can listen to or buy afterwards, superb.</li>
<li>If you have any opportunity to give people the chance to comment, question, take polls, enter competitions, submit photos – do it and always give credit.</li>
</ul>
<p>How have you used these tactics successfully &#8211; share them with us in the comments &#8230;</p>
<h4><em>Ann Hawkins and the amazing TIG folk can help you</em> <em>grow your business and achieve the breakthrough results your hard work deserves. To find out more, simply click <a href="http://annhawkins.com/hire-me/">here</a></em></h4>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jul 2012 13:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Are other people spending your time? Check by doing this after every meeting: Did your meeting start/end on time? If not what could you do to make sure this happens in future? Who benefitted most from the meeting? If it was you, is the benefit in the short or long term? If it was [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_2470" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a href="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Clock-by-RL-Hyde1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2470" title="Clock by RL Hyde" src="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Clock-by-RL-Hyde1.jpg" alt="Clock by RL Hyde1 Who is spending your time? " width="150" height="150" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Photo by RL Hyde</p></div>
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<h1>Are other people spending your time?</h1>
<p>Check by doing this after every meeting:</p>
<p>Did your meeting start/end on time?</p>
<p>If not what could you do to make sure this happens in future?</p>
<p>Who benefitted most from the meeting?</p>
<p>If it was you, is the benefit in the short or long term?</p>
<p>If it was others, why did you allow them to spend your time for you?</p>
<p>Were any of today’s activities less important than other things on your list?</p>
<p>If so, could you have postponed them?</p>
<p>You don’t want to be mean with your time but if other people are benefitting more than you, try changing lunch to coffee and coffee to a Skype call and a Skype call to an email.</p>
<p>Suggest other people do the prep for a meeting and send you the info beforehand. Don’t let anyone put a monkey on your back – make sure it stays where it belongs.</p>
<p>Spend more time on the important stuff and less on the urgent &#8211; especially if its more urgent for other people than it is for you.</p>
<h4><em>Ann Hawkins and the amazing TIG folk can help you</em> <em>grow your business and achieve the breakthrough results your hard work deserves. To find out more, simply click <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a href="http://annhawkins.com/hire-me/"><span style="color: #0000ff; text-decoration: underline;">here</span></a></span></span></em></h4>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2012 11:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Attraction Delusion News just in: there is no ‘Law of Attraction’. Wishing for things doesn’t work. You have to go out and make your own success yourself.  This is a guest post by my friend Ayd Instone, an international speaker, philosopher, songwriter and entertainer on the subject of creativity. He’s the author of a number [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><a href="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/magnet.jpg"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-2451" style="border: 5px solid white; margin: 5px;" title="magnet" alt="magnet 300x300 There is no Law of Attraction" src="http://annhawkins.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/magnet-300x300.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a>The Attraction Delusion</h1>
<h2>News just in: there is no ‘Law of Attraction’.</h2>
<h3>Wishing for things doesn’t work.</h3>
<h4>You have to go out and make your own success yourself.</h4>
<blockquote><p> This is a guest post by my friend <a target="_blank" href="http://www.aydinstone.com">Ayd Instone,</a> an international speaker, philosopher, songwriter and entertainer on the subject of creativity. He’s the author of a number of books and I thoroughly recommend his blog <a target="_blank" href="http://aydinstone.wordpress.com/">‘Ding!’</a> which is full of thought provoking articles.</p></blockquote>
<h2>There is no ‘Law of Attraction’</h2>
<p>I know this to be true because I have run experiments throughout my life. There are things that I have really wanted, more than anything, that I have focused positively and insensately on for prolonged periods of time. The result: I have not got them. There are things that I have not wanted, that I have paid no attention to at all, that I did not even know existed, that came upon me in my life.</p>
<h2>This is why there is no Law of Attraction.</h2>
<p>I know this for certain because I have studied science. For something to be a Law it must be true under all condition, every single time. Anyone who refers to Wishful Thinking (or Focus, or Positive Thinking or The Secret or As A Man Thinketh as a Law &#8211; they are dimwits. And deluded. And wrong.</p>
<p>Something that is sometimes true, sometimes works, where the rules are arbitrary and not universal and are not simple to describe, cannot be a Law, it can only ever rise to be a superstition.</p>
<p>But so what? What&#8217;s so bad about making a wish? What&#8217;s so wrong about buying into the latest cool spiritual revelation?</p>
<h3>There is no quick fix</h3>
<p>By thinking there&#8217;s an easy quick fix to all life&#8217;s problems (especially the financial ones) people always end up losing a lot of money and time that&#8217;s either eaten away by wasteful inaction, or stolen by snake oil hypnotists who are masters at exploiting us at our most needy.</p>
<p>In short, the Law of Attraction does the opposite of what it claims: it is the Law of Distraction, of Repulsion. It is a delusion.</p>
<div class="simplePullQuote"><p>On reading this there will be some disciples who will cry, “you’re not doing it right” or “you’re not trying hard enough” and yet no-one seems to be able to decide on exactly what the rules are.</p>
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<h3>Let’s put aside scepticism for one moment and look at the Universe as if the claims of the Law where actually true.</h3>
<p>If the natural laws of the universe were able to be manipulated as the Law of Attraction demands, we could not have any science or any technology at all. They require unrefutable, unchanging natural laws.</p>
<p>If Newton&#8217;s laws of motion, if chemical reactions, gravity, the electromagnetic force and other natural laws were all at the whim of someone&#8217;s individual will, what would the universe look like?</p>
<p>All matter and structure would collapse. We would live in a dark age of magick and chaos where the most powerful minds (those who can ‘try hard enough’ and ‘do it right’) would have the rest of us bent to their will. They could wipe us out, or manipulate us like voodoo dolls, they could bring the stars crashing down, they could set themselves up as gods.</p>
<p>Fortunately they don’t, because thoughts do not manipulate matter unless we intervene in the process by using our hands.</p>
<p>The words manipulate, manage, manoeuvre and manifest are all derived from the verb ‘to handle’, i.e. to use one’s hands, not one’s mind.</p>
<h3>Let’s look at a few more mundane examples.</h3>
<p>If you believe in the Law of Attraction you must never hold any insurance policy of any kind. Just by preparing for death, accident or thinking about any kind of safety net means you’ll be asking the universe for trouble. <div class="simplePullQuote"><p>Make sure you don’t wear a cycle helmet as you’re just ‘attracting’ to fall off and bang your head.</p>
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<p>Another aspect that is intrinsically linked to belief in the Law of Attraction is that the controlling force behind it, the Universe, is amoral.  This means that we must be careful what we wish for. It also means we can wish for personal success and riches guilt free. There is no judgement. We can use the Law to be as greedy as we wish and in fact this is often encouraged and the main practitioners of the Law promote the wealth angle and cite their own wealth as proof that it all works. The Universe, it seems, just gets us whatever we really want.</p>
<div class="simplePullQuote"><p>Stephen Fry once said of such ‘New Age’ beliefs, “At least when we believed in God, we didn’t believe all this horse sh**”.</p>
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<p>And he has a point. If we want to believe in a universe or being that grants wishes, looks after us and communicates with us in some supernatural way then we should turn to the most researched, explored, debated, believed and trusted methodology for that kind of system which is contained in a set of books called the Bible. (Other faith based books are available).</p>
<p>But people stay clear of the Bible (and the other major faith based doctrines) because it says something that the Law of Attraction doesn’t say: you actually have to do some work.</p>
<p>And that’s the attraction of the Law of Attraction, that you don’t really have to do any work. You don’t have to be righteous, or truthful, or love your neighbour, or worship and praise a higher authority, or support a community. It’s spirituality without the religion which is like having a cake without baking it.</p>
<p>Some people deride religion as if it’s some sort of disease. It isn’t. All it is, is a mode of life that sticks to particular rules, an organised system of living a life. Football can be a religion. Religion isn’t a dirty word. Religion is about order and about getting things done, on time when you said you were going to do it, in the way you said you were going to do it. To do something ‘religiously’ means to do something continuously and consistently.</p>
<p>The Law of Attraction is anti-responsibility and anti-action. It is wishful thinking. It is a promise of a quick fix, an easy way out without having to do any work.</p>
<h3>But what about all those people who claim they have indeed ‘attracted’ success?</h3>
<p>There are two factors that play a vital role in any success: taking action and coincidental luck. Just study anyone who is or was successful and you’ll see that they all DID something AND were in the right place at the right time, often without conscious design to be there.</p>
<p>There is no evidence that wishful thinking increases ‘luck’. There’s plenty of evidence that directed, focused action increases ‘luck’. There&#8217;s also plenty of evidence that lack of action produces lack of success (even for people who were in the right place at the right time).</p>
<p>Taking action means actually doing something rather than just thinking about it or wishing for it. Directed focus means deciding on the right action that will likely get the desired result.</p>
<p>If dream/vision boards, positive thinking, prayer and meditation help you decide and set goals that create focus then they are useful tools. What you think about dictates what action you’re likely to take.</p>
<p>So instead of waiting around for the Universe to deliver our wonderful wishes, we should be taking matter and energy into our own hands, manipulating the Universe for ourselves, to manifest the outcomes we desire by focused, directed action.</p>
<p>As humans we are creators. We make things. Civilisations rose through action. The great discoveries of science were made by experiments. The great works of art were painted, transcribed, carved and written. In short: things got DONE.</p>
<p>It’s good to dream and it’s good to plan but it’s even better to DO.</p>
<p>But leave all that ‘wishing’ to Peter Pan.</p>
<p>P.S.</p>
<p>And if you STILL have a spiritual need, a vacuum inside you that needs filling, go join an established Church, and ask questions. Be very wary about finding the answers from some millionaire guru selling bootcamps and books. Do you really believe that anyone has had a genuine spiritual experience simply by paying money to get it? To get anything worthwhile in life you have to do the work to get it. Usually things that come easy aren’t worth having.</p>
<p>The author:</p>
<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.aydinstone.com">Ayd Instone</a> is an international speaker, philosopher and entertainer on the subject of creativity. He’s the author of a number of books and writes regularly on his blog <a target="_blank" href="http://aydinstone.wordpress.com/">‘Ding!’</a>  Follow Ayd on Twitter @AydInstone.</p>
<p>So tell us what YOU think. Comments in the box below &#8230;.</p>
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