No sex please, we're British. A relaxed and open attitude to sex and personal energy certainly opens up to more fun; and not just physical fun. Being in touch with your "self" and allowing others to connect is so vital to letting the true you flourish and then everyone is happier. There are still some people who really do think that babies are delivered by stalks! The best people I know still go a bit red in the face when sex comes up but they celebrate the love and the fun in that emotion and this is my point - being emotionally connected in your life is fun and rewarding.
Isn't the quality of a relationship the thing that determines if you are getting enough or not? For some people this might be 3 times a day, for others 3 times a month, the point is that being felt attractive enough to want that person to want to have sex with you 'rubs' off. If you feel attractive, you glow, you buzz, you switch on. Sex is never enough. It's love that provides that final spark that makes a person at one with themselves. It begins with love of the self and if you are really lucky you get love, and sex, from someone else. As in 'Jerry Maguire' - you are complete. Not from the acceptance of another, but from the combined feelings of yourself, them and sometimes those in your circle of influence.
Brilliantly put Andy. The personal confidence you mention is what creates charisma and an essential part of that is about caring for other people and how you make them feel. A charismatic person will always make people feel good and will never overstep the mark because they are truly engaged with the other person and are disciplined enough to know where to draw the line. I don't think this necessarily stems from getting 'enough' sex but from the quality of the relationship(s) that provide it!
I've been meaning to reply to this for a while. I can't believe how shocked people are when I mention sex in any talk I do. For me it's the power of seduction that is so alluring. How many blokes spend the first few minutes of a networking event eyeing up the best looking women? Indeed, how many women do the same - for the blokes presumably. Sex is what drives many thoughts/emotions/feelings. Those that get enough are sexually confident - something that filters down to their personal confidence. People who aren't getting any are often lacking that 'cheekiness' that makes a person fun, a flirt, someone interesting to talk to. Someone recently said to me 'Men always think about sex, I don't' she claimed. To which I thought 'Of course you don't - you're a bloody mess, who is going to be interested?' Sexual confidence helps you to take a pride in your appearance - it builds a desire to feel good and look good. This often means better food, working out and building the immune system. Sexual confidence, and activity, improves serotonin production which builds a happier mood, more mental stimulation and yet again, a better immune system. When you are confident people of both sexes respond to you in a positive way and the law of attraction attracts you to the type of people that you want to work with. Overt sexuality can be off putting for some people - I've seen it for males and females. I think there's a time and a place for everything, but delivered with and/or passion and humour you can often get away with a little more. For me sex, passion, flirting, having fun and enjoying business all come in the same boat (if you excuse the pun). I also recognise that there is a fine line between sexy and sleazy and you have to be careful, but I'll never be one to ignore the feelings that are out there.
It's true a lot of my patients who see me for one thing or another often have High sex drives they are successful business owners. They also display a high level of intellegence and ambition. Perhaps they all do in fact go hand in hand. The photo's are great.
Fantastic event! I've been hearing abour Inspired Events for a very long time and have been unable to attend one, until this month. The speaker was great, the event was very well organised and I've just been sent the pictures - very flattering! I was impressed with the speakers way of interpreting the way we work in life and the way sex has a huge influence! Roll on next month Ann....... I would recommend this event to anyone who is serious about their business.
What an interesting point! As an older woman I feel I have much more freedom and much more equality than when I was younger. My power comes from a different source now.
Personally I feel being a woman in a business surrounded by fellas is often an advantage rather than disadvantage ( and often quite amusing). Sexual recognition from others creates a power of its own, problem is women tend to be scared or threatened by it or by using it. Whilst it can have its drawbacks, in that you can spend a LOT of time having to prove yourself-especially to 'alpha' males. When you do, they tend to respect you big time. Really its just a tool like any other and confidence is the key to using it properly ( in my humble opinion!).