Power – the essential ingredient for success

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At our monthly events we’re following the Steps to Success as outlined by Napoleon Hill in Think and Grow Rich.

The next topic is ‘Power’ and the speaker is highlighting the power of the human voice -leadership – oratory – persuasiveness etc.

I asked for ideas and thoughts on the positive uses of power in business and especially how it can be used to create harmony and achieve common goals.

This is the thought provoking reply I got from David Bridge, Director at Mayfair Coaching Practice

“There is much complexity behind Power, but I like to look at the simple opposite – compliance. Why do people comply with Power? What motivates people to allow others Power? It might be the promise of riches, a share in the Power, or meeting other personal needs. It might be part of a plot to form a coup to wrest Power from the incumbent. All forms of personal feelings and politics are involved.
From a business point of view I find understanding of compliance far more rewarding than understanding of Power. From the reasons for compliance you learn about personal motivation and reward.
You have Power because other people allow it, expecting you to use it for their benefit. Believing that you created the Power for yourself is a well defined route to failure.
Finally, your ambition for harmony and common goals also needs to be interpreted from personal motivation. No matter how common the goals may look to a leader, each individual will interpret them in a personal way which can only be discovered by constant communication; i.e. listening.”

A further thought:

“I have a 16 year old Son – 70 years ago he would have been called up (as my Father was).

Would you countenance the sacrifice of your teenage son to resolve the threat faced by Winston Churchill?
Would you have volunteered to do the same for Tony Blair?
(not precise comparisons – the first was conscription, but you can rewrite the rules to make a point)
Which of these two Prime Ministers would you consider to have been the more avaricious for Power? Who truly had compliance?”
Director at Mayfair Coaching Practice

See the details of our event on Power
Join the discussion: What are the positive uses of power in business? What examples do you have of its use in creating success?

Inspiring New Year Message from Helen


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Hello Lovely Ann

Please pass on my love and gratitude to everyone who’s been supporting me over the last few months and let them know that my spirits are continually boosted by the messages they send.

Quick update is that I had my second chemo on 14th Dec. My intentions for the course are that “I receive the healing gift of chemotherapy with love and gratitude” & secondly that “It’s going to be a breeze”.  Such a different attitude to 5 years ago – its been amazing how the work I’ve been doing (with the help of some exceptional therapists) has given me such strong self belief.  The medics now tell me I have multiple tumours in both lungs as well as infected lymph nodes in my neck & around my trachea, and that the chemo course will be 6 months, with a scan to check progress half way through.  This was a bit of a surprise as we’d previously been told only 3 months.  I’ve told them this treatment is going to work so well I simply won’t be needing the second 3 months (besides I have a mountain to climb in June!).  I’m not sure they believe me.  That doesn’t matter really, because I believe me.  I’ve been feeling pretty good so far, and see myself as a well, healthy person with an amazing future ahead of me.

I wish everyone a happy, healthy & fun-filled 2010.

With love, as always

Helen

Helen is blogging again – read about her adventures at http://helencrowe.net/

(Helen had bowel cancer 5 years ago and last year made a trip to Peru to raise funds for the Bowel Cancer charity. On her return she was diagnosed with a brain tumour which was successfully removed in October. If you’d like to send Helen a message (even if you don’t know her – its OK) and don’t have her details, please just ask me or leave a message here or on her own blog http://helencrowe.net/)

Twitter Business for Beginners



Blue Bird Twitter logoCan you really get business from Twitter?

“Yes you can, and this is how.”

Business Basics

Twitter can do what every business owner wants and needs: it can allow you to listen to what potential clients and customers are looking for, need and think and it can be the means by which you connect with them directly as individuals and create rewarding relationships. In Twitter terms you ‘follow’ the people you want to listen to and attract the people you want to talk to as your “followers” (more of this later).

Ignore media Reports

You probably need to ignore most of the media reports about Twitter which are either focused on celebrities and totally irrelevant or intent on rubbishing a new media that threatens the established ways of reporting world events. Neither of these viewpoints has much to do with using Twitter for business.

Getting started is easy

If you haven’t already got a Twitter account go to www.twitter.com and follow the instructions. Do write down the password you use for your account as you’ll need this for all sorts of applications that come later. It is essential to personalize your profile. Use your own name rather than a company name but make it short, simple and memorable.

First impressions count and you will be recognised both on-line and in face to face meetings from your avatar picture so its really important to use a good one (close up head shot is best) and don’t change it too often. People form relationships with people not companies so don’t use a company logo.

Include a link to your web site or blog but also some information that is not just about business. For the same reason make sure you turn off the “Protect Updates” option. There is no point in using any social networks if your aim is to be private. Lighting a beacon fire or using semaphore is likely to be more private than any communication via the internet.

On your Twitter home page is a menu bar where you can change your profile and settings and “Find People”. Use this tab to enter in the names of people you know are already on Twitter or people that you are interested in. Click on the “follow” tab to add them to the list of people whose conversation you will be able to see. Their “tweets” will start appearing in a “stream” on you home page. If you find them boring or irrelevant you can click on their profile and “unfollow” them whenever you like.

On the right of your home page is a search box. Enter a particular subject or area you are interested in and this will bring up a list of “tweets” that have mentioned it. You can decide whether or not to follow any of those people depending on how interesting you find them. Another way to find people to follow is to use www.twellow.com (the Twitter Yellow pages) www.tweepsearch.com is another way to find people based on keywords in their bio.

You may find that some of the people you follow will follow you back or random people will find you. You will get an email to let you know who they are. If any of these look like spam accounts or have content that you find distasteful (remember Twitter is completely uncensored) you can use the “block” facility. No-one knows if they’ve been blocked or by whom. It just means that you won’t see their tweets and they won’t see yours.

Sending your first tweet

To send your first tweet type something in the box at the top of the page – max 140 characters. This will go to all the people who have already decided to follow you. What you’ll see on your home page now is a stream of tweets for the people you are following. Hover over the right of the message and two symbols will appear. The star enables you to store that tweet for later in the “favorites” on your Twitter homepage. To reply to that tweet click on the shooting arrow. This will put an @ symbol in the text box with the twittername of the person you are replying to. Type your message and send. Your tweet will be seen by that person and also by everyone else who is following both of you.

When you see a conversation or a comment that interests you, just join in. They are public not private and most people are happy to hear new comments. It’s sometimes hard to follow conversations because people dip in and out but don’t let that bother you. Anything really interesting will probably come round again. Think of it like a party in a big house – you can’t join in every conversation at the same time.

If you want to send a private message to someone (not often necessary) use the Direct Message (DM) option on the right hand menu bar. You can see all the DMs you’ve sent and received on this page. You can also see all the replies that have your @twittername in them. Always try to reply to these as they’re from people who are talking to you or about you!

What to tweet about

Join in as many conversations as possible, establish relationships, be as interesting as possible and your number of followers will build. Unless you are really, really funny or the circumstances are exceptional please spare us weather reports, your tea making habits, ablutions, TV viewing and health reports. Think about standing in a room full of people – would you spew out quotes or endlessly repeat everything that others are saying? I hope not!

As with all networking you need to get to know people before you start selling. A subtle link to a subject on your blog or website will start to build an interest in what you do but if you blast out sales messages or are just plain boring you’ll lose followers pretty quickly.

When you get a really interesting tweet or a request for help, for example: “anyone know a great packaging company/hotel/printer?” etc., you can re-tweet the message by putting RT in the text box followed by the @twittername of the originator. Then copy and paste the message. You may have to abbreviate it if including the originator’s name takes it over 140 characters.  You’ll build a lot of goodwill and friends by re-tweeting. A good strategy is to send as many tweets as possible that other people think are worthwhile re-tweeting. Some people seem to think that if they re-tweet the millions of inspirational quotes that come their way their name will get re-tweeted too but if they’re not original or really funny you’ll just bore and annoy your followers and lose them.

Remember that the people you are interacting with aren’t virtual people. They are real people in a virtual meeting place so behave as you would if they were in the same room as you and treat them with respect.

Some people use a system called autofollow which means if someone follows you, you automatically follow them back and if they unfollow you, you automatically unfollow them. This is generally only used by people who care more about the numbers than the quality of the people they follow. It’s easy to get thousands of followers if you choose to follow thousands of people but you are probably following a lot of automated accounts that just spew out sales messages rather than having meaningful conversations with people. Its better to choose who you follow by looking at their profile. If I get an automated Direct Message (DM) I generally unfollow that account as I’m not interested in anyone who treats me like a number instead of an individual.

There are lots of scams offering ways to get more followers but these often link to automated systems that take over your account so treat anything like that with extreme caution.

That’s the basics covered and I’d recommend you spend a few minutes every day getting comfortable with those and build your followers before looking at what else is going on.

Beyond the basics

You’ll find that people on Twitter talk about the best way to use it, the various applications and options and send out links to guides and tips. This is the easiest way to learn about all the various ways that have developed, usually independently of Twitter, to make it even better. If you see someone doing something or using an application you’re interested in, just ask them how to do the same.

One of the most popular free applications to keep track of your account is TweetDeck www.tweetdeck.com which allows you to arrange your twitter stream into groups. You can group together people whose tweets you definitely don’t want to miss so that they all appear in one column. You can see all the tweets that mention you in a separate column. All remaining tweets will just stream past in another column and you can dip in and out of those conversations as you choose.

There are various other applications for PCs, Macs and mobile phones. You can use some mobile phones to tweet messages and photographs http://twitpic.com The best way to find out about these is to listen to others, experiment & play until you find what suits you.

One of the easiest and quickest ways to get more business using Twitter is to have a blog that is configured to update Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn and other social networks whenever you post a new entry. As long as the blog subjects are of interest to your followers they will RT these links and lots of people will visit your blog and help you to build a reputation as an expert in your field and make you easier to find on Google and other search engines. One of the easiest ways to do this is to use www.killerseosuperblogs.com

There are lots of useful tools at www.tweetlater.com including setting up automated tweets and numerous analytical tools at www.twitteranalyzer.com. Again, use these with caution or your will either bore people or annoy them and lose followers.

How it works for me

I have been using Twitter for about twelve months and choose the people I follow very carefully. Because much of my business is local I started out by selecting local business owners and connecting with people I already know.
However, I quickly found and joined in some really interesting conversations about things that are nothing to do with my business and started following and being followed by a wide variety of people from different countries that include writers, artists, journalists, photographers, musicians and TV producers. I’ve learned a lot, expanded my interests, made friends and laughed so much that at times I couldn’t see to type.

I’ve built my business connections because all of these people are connected to others who have been drawn into the conversations. I’ve been invited to write for other people’s blogs and I’ve had blog posts re-tweeted by people who have no interest in my business but because they’ve grown to like me they promote me to their followers and I do the same for them. As a result I’ve had more people attend my workshops, mastermind groups and other events and I am building a reputation that goes way beyond the local people that I regularly do business with. I’ve also been invited to join and contribute to a private international discussion group of people who value my business ideas.
As all this activity is free, the only investment is my time which is a lot less than any efforts I could have made to get my business known by so many people.

I only ever tweet from my PC, never from my phone and I’ve never posted a twitpic.  I use TweetDeck and HootSuite as I find they both have features that are useful. I follow about 700 people and am followed by about 1,700 people. However, the people who are following me have between them hundreds of thousands of followers so the number of people I am able to reach goes way beyond my own account. My account is a small one by many Twitter standards but it’s manageable and gives me great results.

If you’d like to know more about using Twitter I’d be very happy to help. Just email me or send me a Tweet  http://twitter.com/AnnHawkins/

This article was first published in Aug 09 and updated in Jan 2010

Happy New Year/ Auld Lang Syne

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Train Tracks in the Snow by Adam Hawkins

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Why, when we gather to celebrate a New Year, do we sing the song that hardly anyone understands?

Auld Lang Syne – the song that everybody sings and nobody knows is often attributed to Robbie Burns but the song is actually much older and Robbie just added a few verses sometime in the 1790s.

The band leader Guy Lombardo is credited with making the song a New Year’s tradition after hearing it sung by Scottish immigrants to Canada. Lombardo played the song at midnight at a New Year’s eve party at the Roosevelt Hotel in New York City in 1929. After that, Lombardo’s version of the song was played and broadcast every New Year’s eve from the 1930s until 1976 at the Waldorf Astoria.

Looking back and looking forward

There are those who see the end of the year as a chance to look back on their achievements (or what they failed to achieve) and look forward to achieving more but the song asks us to reflect on our relationships with the people who have shared our journey in life while we think of what has passed and what is to come.

More than any other achievement it is the connections to other human beings that give life meaning, bring us a sense of belonging and make us emotionally healthy.

Auld Lang Syne urges us to call up memories of old friends and to lift a glass to toast them even if they are no longer with us or we haven’t seen them in a long time. When times are bad it is especially good to remember those who cared for us and supported us and remember that these same people celebrated with us in good times.

People are the most important things in our lives

The media continues its relentless fear-mongering, trying to make us believe that danger and evil lurks around every corner but there are also countless stories of the kindness of strangers and more especially, most of us are fortunate enough to know that there are people we can rely on and who can rely on us to be selfless and kind with no thought of reward.

We sing the song that we barely understand because we know instinctively that it is these relationships that we should celebrate at the end of a year and know that spending time on building and strengthening them  will be the most important things we can do with our time in the years to come.

Appreciating that life has had good moments with good people is what sustains hope and makes us want to experience that feeling again in times to come.

May you have many such moments in 2010.

Here is my version of the old song:

For times long gone, old friend
For times long gone
We’ll drink a toast to kindness shared
In times long gone.
Let’s remember our old friends
Who helped when times were bad
Let’s remember the celebrations
That we shared when times were good.
You get yourself your favourite drink
And I will get mine too
And we’ll drink a toast to kindness shared
In times of long ago.
We used to run quite carefree
Picking flowers in the sun
But we’ve also trudged a weary way
And some good times have gone.
We used to paddle in the stream
And play till we were tired
But oceans flowed between us
And pushed it from our minds.
Now take my hand my trusted friend
And give me yours to shake
And join me in a good-will drink
To good times that we shared.

If you want to see the traditional words just go here:

http://www.worldburnsclub.com/poems/translations/auld_lang_syne.htm

Happy New Year!

Carols for the disturbed

Impression of a person trapped in the snow

Trapped! Photo by Adam Hawkins http://anodizeproductions.com

















CHRISTMAS CAROLS FOR THE DISTURBED

1. Schizophrenia — Do You Hear What I Hear?

2. Multiple Personality Disorder — We Three Kings Disoriented Are

3. Dementia — I Think I’ll be Home for Christmas

4. Narcissistic — Hark the Herald Angels Sing about me

5. Manic — Deck the Halls and Walls and House and Lawn and Streets and Stores and Office and Town and Cars and Buses and Trucks and Trees and…..

6. Paranoid — Santa Claus is Coming to Town to Get Me

7. Borderline Personality Disorder — Thoughts of Roasting on an Open Fire

8. Personality Disorder — You Better Watch Out, I’m Gonna Cry, I’m Gonna Pout, Maybe I’ll Tell You Why

9. Attention Deficit Disorder — Silent night, Holy oooh look at the Froggy – can I have a chocolate, why is France so far away?

10. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder — Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, JingleBells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells,

Overcoming Obstacles to Success

Andy Gibney demonstration of overcoming obstacles What obstacles do you face in the pursuit of success?

Andy Gibney made it to Silver Medallist in the World Championship Stick Fighting competition. He was already British Champion and fully expected to become World Champion.


Undeterred, he entered the competition the following year and ended up as…..  Silver Medallist again.

The experience of ‘not quite making it’ is one that resonates with many people, especially those who start their own businesses.

What is interesting is what we choose to do about it.

Do we settle for less or do we explore other ways to get what we really want?

Do we stick with what is comfortable or push ourselves into those places where we’re not quite sure what might happen?

Andy chose to explore what was going on in his own head and this led him down a completely different path. He explored the Nonviolent Communication methods of Dr Marshall Rosenberg and trained with Dr Richard Bandler and Paul McKenna in NLP and hypnosis. He has since trained 8 world Champions, 5 European Champions and countless British and regional Champions.

One of Andy’s physical demonstrations showed quite clearly that when we focus on a problem (a weakness) rather than on a solution we can expect a very different result.

We all saw the change in Andy’s demeanour and his body when he changed his thinking and the result that this produced was astonishing. He repeated this display with randomly selected partners to combat the cynicism that this kind of display usually produces.

Moving away from the physical manifestations, Andy did the following exercise:

Choose which of these is most important to you:

Health

Freedom

Security

Success

Comfort

Adventure

Contribution

Loyalty

Knowledge

Intimacy

Honesty

Power

Love

Passion

When you have done that, go back through the list and choose the second most important and then the third – make sure you write them down.

Now look at this list and choose which one you take care to avoid experiencing at all costs:

Frustration

Depression

Humiliation

Rejection

Guilt

Failure

Loneliness

Anger

As before, go back through the list and choose the second and the third emotions that you would take care to avoid experiencing.

Now compare your lists.

If there is a conflict in the things you seek and the things you try to avoid you will experience difficulties in achieving what you say or believe you want.

Resolving these conflicts and understanding what you REALLY want is the key to success (whatever that means to you).

Andy Gibney has been described as “the Derren Brown of the business scene”, “the Gordon Ramsey of kick boxing” and “the Gene Hunt of therapy” Find him at http://www.nobrain-nogain.com

Photos from the event are here

Video clip of Andy stick fighting is here

We continue our “Steps to Success” programme on 20th January when we explore “Power, the essential ingredient in success and how it can be used to harmonise.” http://theinspiredgroup.com/inspired-events/

Win-Win

When I worked in the printing industry many moons ago the prevailing culture was one of conflict. The management thought it was great to get the five trades unions fighting each other and it was hardly surprising that the whole industry collapsed.

A few years later I read The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Steven Covey and thought how much the idea of creating win-win situations would have changed the way things were done. Since then I’ve tried to create win/win situations in most things that I do.

The blog  ‘The Complete Networker’ and the events detailed in there is an example of how a co-operative approach benefits a huge number of people and everyone involved deserves huge congratulations for their abundant win-win thinking.

THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

HABIT 4: THINK WIN-WIN

Think Win-Win isn’t about being nice, nor is it a quick-fix technique. It is a character-based code for human interaction and collaboration.

Most of us learn to base our self-worth on comparisons and competition. We think about succeeding in terms of someone else failing–that is, if I win, you lose; or if you win, I lose. Life becomes a zero-sum game. There is only so much pie to go around, and if you get a big piece, there is less for me; it’s not fair, and I’m going to make sure you don’t get anymore. We all play the game, but how much fun is it really?

Win-win sees life as a cooperative arena, not a competitive one. Win-win is a frame of mind and heart that constantly seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions. Win-win means agreements or solutions are mutually beneficial and satisfying. We both get to eat the pie, and it tastes pretty darn good!

A person or organization that approaches conflicts with a win-win attitude possesses three vital character traits:
Integrity: sticking with your true feelings, values, and commitments
Maturity: expressing your ideas and feelings with courage and consideration for the ideas and feelings of others
Abundance Mentality: believing there is plenty for everyone
Many people think in terms of either/or: either you’re nice or you’re tough. Win-win requires that you be both. It is a balancing act between courage and consideration. To go for win-win, you not only have to be empathic, but you also have to be confident. You not only have to be considerate and sensitive, you also have to be brave. To do that–to achieve that balance between courage and consideration–is the essence of real maturity and is fundamental to win-win.

From https://www.stephencovey.com/7habits/7habits-habit4.php

To see a win-win in action look here ‘The Complete Networker’

Trustees wanted

HEADWAY CAMBRDIGESHIRE SEEKS NEW TRUSTEES

Headway Cambridgeshire is seeking new trustees to support them as a lead charity which provides rehabilitative care for adults with an acquired brain injury.

The charity has ambitious expansion plans for the future, including the opening of two new centres in Peterborough next January, followed by Fenland.

The board of trustees requires a Company Secretary and board members with financial skills and fund-raising knowledge, as well as those with experience of neurological illnesses or social services. Meetings are held every eight weeks and there are additional roles on sub-committees.

The charity, which is based on the Brookfields site in Mill Road, Cambridge, also provides support for carers and families of a brain injured adult who may have become injured following a road accident or fall, a stroke or other medical condition, for example.

Ellee Seymour, Chair of Trustees, said: “We are seeking to increase the trustees on our highly skilled board at a time when Headway Cambridgeshire is going from strength to strength, as well as facing many challenges.

“Being a trustee is a very rewarding role, especially at Headway Cambridgeshire where you can really help make a positive difference to someone’s life. The skills and experience which trustees bring are vital to the success of our organisation and we are very appreciative of the time and commitment they give.”

Anyone interested can contact Ellee for more information on 01353 648564 or 07939 811961. Please email CVs to Ellee at ellee.seymour@btopenworld.com

About Headway

Headway – the UK’s leading brain injury charity – provides support, services and information to brain injury survivors, their families and carers, as well as to professionals in the health and legal fields. It has more than 100 groups and branches throughout the UK.

Headway Cambridgeshire has been based at Brookfields since 1992 and, as well as offering day care support to its service users at Headway House, the charity also supports the families and carers of brain injury survivors both at Addenbrooke’s in the immediate post-accident phase and also in the community once the survivor has returned home. The day service provides care for 125 day placements each week for clients with a range of abilities related to their brain injury. The charity employs 16 staff in administrative and caring roles and enjoys the ongoing support of 30 regular volunteers who give their time freely and undertake a wide range of activities.

Key facts

• Each year, around 1.4 million people attend hospital A&E in the UK following head injury
• Approximately half of deaths in people under 40 are due to head injury
• Head injury accounts for about 30 per cent of traumatic deaths and a higher proportion of long-term disability
• Men are two or three times more likely to have a brain injury than women. This increased to five times more likely in the 15-29 age range
• The major causes of head injury are road traffic accidents, falls and accidents at home or at work
• Headway Cambridgeshire’s service users come from the whole of Cambridgeshire, including Huntingdon, Peterborough and Fenland

Effects

• Physical: loss of co-ordination, muscle rigidity, paralysis, epilepsy, difficulty in speaking, loss of sight, smell or taste, fatigue and sexual problems
• Cognitive: problems with memory, attention and concentration, low tolerance of noisy or stressful environments, loss of insight and initiative
• Behaviour and personality: anxiety, depression, loss of motivation, difficulty in controlling anger and impulsiveness
• It is estimated that across the UK there are well over 500,000 people living with permanent disabilities as a result of head injury

How to master procrastination and make decisions

Making decisions


Why making decisions is crucial to success

The procrastination I’m talking about is not about putting things off but rather about not making decisions. Until a decision is taken no action is possible and it the lack of action that causes most failures. Procrastination is a complex psychological behavior that affects everyone to some degree or another. While it can be a minor irritation for some people it a source of considerable stress and anxiety for others.

Procrastination is sometimes confused with time management but this is not really the issue.

An analysis of over 25,000 people who had experienced some kind of failure revealed that the inability to make decisions was near the top of the list of reasons. (Napoleon Hill ‘Think and Grow Rich’)


Henry FordHenry Ford was renowned for attributing his success to his ability to make decisions quickly and stick to them, often despite fierce opposition from his advisors.

Are you easily swayed by others?

If you find you are easily swayed by the opinions of others and constantly change your mind because you are afraid of what others might say or think about you, procrastination will cripple you and stop you from making a decision and more importantly, from taking action. The ability to make decisions comes back to understanding exactly what it is that you want, to the burning desire and definite purpose that underpins all achievement.

Leaders in all walks of life decide quickly and firmly and the world has a habit of making room for the person who knows where they are going and why.

Have you worked out how you make decisions?

Do you work from logic, from gut instinct or do you take advice from others? Recent studies have shown that decision making can be affected by our prejudices, our past experience and even our surroundings.

However, the reason that most people put off making a decision is the fear of getting it WRONG.

Procrastination leads to inaction. Inaction leads to failure. Failure leads to loss of confidence which make it hard to make decisions. The only way out of this loop is to have courage, make a decision in the full knowledge that whatever happens you will deal with it and remember that most fears are about things that never happen.

Steps to Success

(Inspired by Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich”)

1. Decide what you want. Desire is the starting point of all achievement.
2. Believe that you can get what you want. Self doubt will prevent you from taking action.
3. You don’t have to do it all yourself. Surround yourself with people who know what you don’t know and who can do what you can’t do.
4. Make practical use your imagination. Work out how to turn your dreams into reality.
5. Create a plan, organise your ideas and take continuous action.
6. Avoid procrastination and make decisions. Use information and knowledge from others but let the decisions be your own.
7. Persist. Things will go wrong, people will let you down. If your desire is strong enough you will find a way through all difficulties to achieve your desire.
8. Aquire power and learn how to use it. The ability to lead others in a spirit of harmony to achieve a definite objective is a major source of success.
9. Understand that sex is the most powerful of human desires. When this desire is harnessed into a creative process it can be the source of genius.
10. Learn to use the power of the subconscious mind which can work for or against you but which can be controlled.
11. Develop and learn to trust the ‘sixth sense’. Intuition can help us to avoid dangers and grasp opportunities.
12. Deal with fear, the major obstacle to achievement.

Andy Gibney

Join us at our next event on November 18th when keynote speakerAndy Gibney shows how mastering the art of influencing people removes fears and obstacles and makes it easier to make decisions.

http://theinspiredgroup.com/inspired-events/


Putting Desire into Action

Bob Garbett at Cooks Barn
Listen to the Audio Boo interview with Bob Garbett by Ian McKendrick

Here are the pictures from the event

According to Napoleon Hill ‘Desire is the starting point of all achievement’. Bob Garbett takes it one step further and says ‘Desire is nothing without passion’.

Passion was in evidence in every word of Bob’s presentation as he explained how his military training is easily translated into taking action to get a business idea working.

His main points are:

*If you aren’t passionate about what you’re doing – do something else. He describes passion as a crazy mad emotion that you absolutely have to satisfy, not a rational reasoned argument for doing something.

*Aim for complete success – why would you settle for anything less?

*Don’t do it for the money.

*Don’t listen to reason, just the facts. There will always be people who tell you it can’t be done and why – you may even tell yourself this but if the facts add up and you’re passionate enough you’ll make it happen.

*Make decisions not deliberations. Don’t spend so much time weighing up the pros and cons that you drive yourself mad. Just get on with it.

*Never give up. You may need to find a way around obstacles or take a different route but keep going until you get there.

*Think fast and move fast. Don’t look back in ten years time and wonder why you didn’t get anywhere.

*Manage the risk. What will you need or risk in terms of money/ getting the right team/ the right environment?

*Just do it. We regret the things we didn’t do more than the things we do.

*Follow through. It will get rough, you will get criticism, you will fail occasionally, but if you follow through you cannot FAIL.

Inspired events are very different and very special – join us at the next one on November 18th when Andy Gibney will be talking about“How to Master Procrastination and Overcome Obstacles”



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